Sensate Focus and the Psyche
In my book, Sensate Focus and the Psyche, to be published 20 October 2023 and written for all therapists who work with adult sexuality, I explore in depth both psychoanalytic and psychosexual perspectives of sensate focus, a programme of touching exercises for couples with sexual problems. This provides an original, integrated model for understanding the conscious and unconscious impact of this tactile intervention on couples in treatment.
Beginning with a review of the historical relationship between psychoanalysis and sex therapy and the splitting of mind, body and relationship since Freud, I illustrate how sensate focus, used sensitively, can help couples conceptualise unconscious embodied memories, repair their shame, encourage Winnicottian play, work through transitional phenomena and develop psychological space, establishing a platform for the healthy expression of adult sexuality.
“In this important and highly informative book Susan Pacey draws on her research and extensive professional experience to bring together body, mind and relationship in addressing the untapped potential of psychosexual therapy. She provides a theoretically grounded basis for overcoming the dualism that has restricted its development for decades. Sensate Focus and the Psyche should be required reading for therapists of every persuasion who work with adult sexuality.”
Christopher Clulow PhD
Senior Fellow, Tavistock Institute of Medical Psychology.
Contact
Dr Susan Pacey
London
W1
Couple therapy is a broad-brush term and essentially is similar to couple counselling, psychosexual counselling, marital therapy, marital guidance and relationship counselling.